Sometimes I really do feel like I am in that Talking Heads song "Once In a Lifetime". After each miscarriage my husband and I have both said aloud, "How did we get here?!" Seriously. Most days it still doesn't make sense to us. We are healthy, vibrant people in our mid-thirties; Why isn't this happening for us the way we thought? Why is it so difficult for me when it seems so effortless to everyone else?
I was fortunate enough to be introduced to Kira through my in-laws, not
knowing at the time how important she would end up being to both me and
my husband. After my first miscarriage I had the bizarre feeling that I
should ring her up for a chat, turned out we had a lot
more in common than I could have ever imagined. After each of my six miscarriages
she has helped me get back on my feet, sometimes literally, and encouraged me to understand how important it is to truly heal from these traumas, not
just put a band-aid on them and forget that they happened. It was after my fourth loss that I realized maybe something a bit bigger was going on, and maybe, just maybe, I can use my experiences to help others. I didn't see a lot out there providing helpful and hopeful information for people in my situation, just a lot of scare tactics, anxiety fueled message boards, and sometimes dismissive literature. Fortunately Kira was on board (because without her input this blog would really just be me complaining a lot). So, here we are trying to rip off the band-aid and share our experiences and journeys, hoping to help all of you to do the same.
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